Rejection ?

Ibland är tiden för knapp att skriva på båda språk, så nu blir det bara på engelska <3___________________________________________________________________ So the atmosphere in my school at the moment is kind of flirty. It is after all a tantrik school and even though tantras main subject isn’t sex, you still work with your sexual energy and many people there are very open and aware. So, if someone flirts with me, I just take it as a compliment, that I’m an attractive woman on two legs that people desires. But, if I’m not interested I kindly turn them down. But there is these cases, when people just don’t get it. I always hope that it doesn’t have to get to this point where I actually have to say to someone straight forward ”you know what, thank you for your offer, but I’m not interested”. I prefer that you can show in a nice way by saying no, and that it will be an understanding that there is no interest. But this one guy, from the first moment he was very full on with too many compliments, so you get all uncomfortable, then asking me out for dinner straight away. And I nicely thanked him for his suggestion but that I already have pretty full on schedule with school, work and so on. This guy keeps on asking and I’m turning him down. So then one morning he askes again if I want to come with him to The Dome which is a naked sauna place. I’m again saying that I don’t want to. He takes his mat and puts it next to mine and says ”I saw you on tinder yesterday, and I obviously swiped right”. And then class started. So after class I went up to him and sad that I appreciate that he wants to hang out with me, but that I’m not interested in anything more than friendship. He get all offended and said ”eeehh what do you think, like I would be interested ?!”… After the break when I come to school he comes up to me and says ”You know what, you can actually learn from other people also, by hearing their story, and that you should give me an hour to hang out with me”. The class started and I didn’t get the chance to respond straight away, but this really bugged me for the whole class. So after, I was really irritated, but very calmly I asked him that I wanted to have a word with him. And I really said to him not to give me life advice about that I could learn from other people, of course I know that. I have been learning from different people along my journey my whole life, but that doesn’t mean that I have to go out and have dinner with all people that offers to hang out. That he needs to learn to take a no. I don’t expect everyone to want to get to know me. Some people you match with and those you want to get to know, some people you don't feel that for. Luckily he took it very well, apologized that he got offended by me not wanting to get to know him. But hey, that is life. Its just so interesting how some people just can’t take a no for an answer. p&k